> Is it because then you only experience the good stuff and don't have to worry about getting hurt?It really isn't that good until you open yourself to get hurt, in my experience.
There are many different levels, in my experience. For example:
Worst: Pretty girl just lies there like a corpse and lets you fuck her (e.g., famous girl @ Lee's). You get off from the ego gratification of fucking such a pretty one but you don't return because she is so cold.
Better: GFE, where she is friendly and pretends to enjoy sex with you. You will return until you realize she's faking or until you get tired of her faking.
Much Better: She really likes you, genuinely enjoys sex with you and reaches orgasm with you. You might stick with that one for a while until you want more intimacy.
Best that I've experienced: She genuinely reaches orgasm with you, sometimes simultaneously with yours, you both feel ecstatic, you cuddle afterwards, sleep peacefully together and spend the next day enjoying each other's company, sharing your life experiences honestly, maybe having more sex in the daytime. It really hurts when this ends!
The Very Best: True Love. I can't say I've ever experienced that.
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