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Coolio* (10 posts) 23-Oct-00, 02:17 PM (PDT) "Should I or Shouldn't I" After my last session with my ATF, she expressed an interest in getting together socially. I am not married, but I am in a LTR. I would like to do it as I find her very interesting and attractive. But of course, I run the risk of getting caught (low if I'm careful). Frankly, I just think she wants to be friends. I can't decide what to do. Everything points to 'no', but as you guys understand it's still difficult to resist. Anybody else with similar experiences? I could use some advice. I also worry that if I blow off her gesture, it could ruin our chemistry during sessions. thanks   Alert Edit | Reply | Reply With Quote | Top

RE: Should I or Shouldn't I, 1536*, 04:51 PM, 23-Oct-00, (1) RE: Should I or Shouldn't I, ag, 01:29 AM, 24-Oct-00, (2) Some Things You Can Never Take Back, FSFG*, 01:55 AM, 25-Oct-00, (3) RE: Some Things You Can Never Take Back, Biker*, 09:29 PM, 25-Oct-00, (4) Interesting feedback, Coolio*, 01:29 PM, 01-Nov-00, (5) RE: Interesting feedback, Biker*, 02:56 PM, 01-Nov-00, (6) you mean there's another?, Coolio*, 03:20 PM, 01-Nov-00, (7)

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1536* (584 posts) 23-Oct-00, 04:51 PM (PDT) 1. "RE: Should I or Shouldn't I" the chem will be off no matter what -- if you get together professionally after you go out socailly, will you pay her still, will she discount it, will she change the menu . . . You like her becuase there is no doubt as to the relationship -- it is not an GF, just, perhaps, a GFE. We go to them because they aren't our GE and we have none of that baggage. If you went out and she complained you were late and asked why you were wearing those shoes with that shirt, wouold you look at her the same way? I would give it a pass. I doubt it is worth it.   Remove | Alert Edit | Reply | Reply With Quote | Top

ag (41 posts) 24-Oct-00, 01:29 AM (PDT) 2. "RE: Should I or Shouldn't I" Your question raises several others: Do you want to keep your current girlfriend? Do you want a second girlfriend? Why do you think your AMP girl is asking you out? How would you feel if your ATF told you she does not want you to see her at work anymore? I would try to answer these questions first, then be very careful. The more personal you let this relationship become, the more chance you have of hurting your existing girlfriend. And if you start something and then things don't work out, you might lose your favorite AMP girl as well. -AG   Remove | Alert Edit | Reply | Reply With Quote | Top

FSFG* (116 posts) 25-Oct-00, 01:55 AM (PDT) 3. "Some Things You Can Never Take Back" REF : http://members.aol.com/asscweb/lmr003.htm ~~~~~~~~~~~~~ LUST "Lord, grant me chastity and continence, but not yet" -- St. Augustine, Confessions 8.18 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ENVY "I envy people who drink -- at least they know what to blame everything on." -- Oscar Levant ~~~~~~~~~~~~~ SLOTH "That indolent but agreeable condition of doing nothing." -- Pliny the Younger ~~~~~~~~~~~~~ GREED "man shall not live by bread alone" -- Deuteronomy 8:3 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~ GLUTTONY "No man in the world has more courage than the man who can stop after eating one peanut." -- Channing Pollack ~~~~~~~~~~~~~ PRIDE "Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall." -- Proverbs 16:18 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~ WRATH "Whatever is begun in anger ends in shame." -- Benjamin Franklin ~~~~~~~~~~~~~ By LMR -- Las Vegas Strip Club Review ~~~~~~~~~~~~~ http://members.aol.com/asscweb/hitslist.htm   Remove | Alert Edit | Reply | Reply With Quote | Top

Biker* (373 posts) 25-Oct-00, 09:29 PM (PDT) 4. "RE: Some Things You Can Never Take Back" My advice to you would be to do whatever you want with your provider and break up with you LTR girl. Nothing you do now with the provider or have done in the past is ever going to make it right between you and the LTR girl. Even a scumbag like me (Biker) who eats crack whores would never cheat on a wife or girlfriend. Maybe thats because my life was ruined years ago by a cheating bitch whore wife.   Remove | Alert Edit | Reply | Reply With Quote | Top

Coolio* (10 posts) 01-Nov-00, 01:29 PM (PDT) 5. "Interesting feedback" thanks guys. to be honest I still don't know what to do. man has a dangerous instinct to want his cake and eat it to (or something like that if you know what I mean)...   Remove | Alert Edit | Reply | Reply With Quote | Top

Biker* (373 posts) 01-Nov-00, 02:56 PM (PDT) 6. "RE: Interesting feedback" Yea and you remember what happened to the real Coolio.   Remove | Alert Edit | Reply | Reply With Quote | Top

Coolio* (10 posts) 01-Nov-00, 03:20 PM (PDT) 7. "you mean there's another?" eom   Remove | Alert Edit | Reply | Reply With Quote | Top

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