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headlover* (4 posts) Click to Email headlover%2A Click to check IP address of the poster
08-Nov-00, 10:11 PM (PDT)
"17 yr old too young....just barely"
I found the other thread on dating a 17 year old to be quite interesting and hit near home.

I would never make it with a girl under 18, but only because of the steep steep social/legal consequences. Most 17 year old girls are sexual already. So once they're 18, if they want to be with me I most certainly want to be with them.

I'm 52. I've been drawn to younger women for more than 30 years, and throughout my 20s loved teenage girls exclusively, at that time some were jail-bait, but I was young and foolish, and probably the potential downside was less than at my 'advanced' age.

When I hit about 30, lots of the younger girls thought I was a dirty old man, the opportunities dried up. That was around when I married. When, after 17 years the marriage ended, I found the world of 18 and 19 year old girls had changed in a big big way.

It appears that the vast majority of young 18s are now sexual, they often have major enthusiasm for oral but may not go beyond that. (More lesbian's too, but it's all good I guess).

Anyway I was stunned to find how many girls seek an occasional fling with old farts like myself. I love it!

Curious about why, I ask various questions, and it seems as if these girls mostly like dating and being "involved with" guys their own age, but older guys have some attractive plusses.

Younger guys either tend to shoot after a minute of oral, or if not they demand a fuck. These girls might have one guy they "really like" who they screw, but blow lots of other guys.

They also say guys their own age either refuse, or do a lame job, when they are asked to reciprocate by going down on the girl.

Older guys tend to last a long time, even if they are slow to stiffen, give great head in return, and are at least OK with no screwing, often just as happy without it. They say it, and I know it is true for me, I was a lot different at 20.

I guess there have been a couple of times when I've realized that I was dealing with a child, and it wasn't the healthiest of situations, but this is really rare. Most 18 year old girls have become adults already.

I know relationships and dating are unlikely and not particularly attrractive to me. It's basicly uncomplicated good sex with girls in prime physical condition. I do not regret it.

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NYFB* (6 posts) Click to check IP address of the poster
28-Nov-00, 06:02 PM (PDT)
1. "RE: 17 yr old too young....just barely"
Headlover--I agree, young women are the only way to go! The big problem I find is in meeting the 18 yo female on turf where flirting is possible. Where are you meeting these young ladies?

Like you, at 47 I have zero interest in women my own age. In the past year I have been with around two dozen women in the 18-22 yo range, but all providers. I'm comfortable with this, but would enjoy the non pro as well.

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headlover* (4 posts) Click to check IP address of the poster
18-Dec-00, 05:17 PM (PDT)
2. "RE: 17 yr old too young....just barely"
Telegraph avenue in Berkeley. If you're into music, spend a lot of time in the record stores, Amoeba in particular. Similar results with book stores. Read a book in the student union.

Although you won't succeed every day, it works. (I found sucess was more common when I started to work out some and lost the beer belly)

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