LAST EDITED ON 27-Jan-01 AT 00:23 AM (PDT)I had a similar circumstance happen very recently. I was with an AMP girl whom I have seen several times before. She works in SF, but lives in the Southbay. We were chatting away and she mentioned that she was staying in SF that night with a friend who was visiting from out of town. Then she mentioned that she was going out with her friend after work to "party." It was late, in fact, very late and I was her last customer that evening. But, I didn't think any of this was anything more than the usual, friendly, post massage idle conversation. Then she said "Do you want to go with me?"
It really surprised me. Thinking back, maybe I should have seen it coming, but at the time it was late, I was tired, and when she asked the question, I was completely unprepared for it. I kind of froze, just like the proverbial deer caught in the headlight. Finally, I blurted out something to the effect that I was really tired, had to get up early in the morning and go to work, and so on. After we took our respective showers, she came back in the room while I was still dressing, and she was dressed in her "civilian" clothes, ready for a night on the town. She looked great! It really didn't take long for me to realize (driving back home and thinking how good she looked) what an IDIOT I was for saying no.
Oh, well. Another lesson learned the hard way. It should go without saying that it's truly, honestly flattering to be asked out by someone who you have been actively paying to have sex with you. For a moment, that particular pretense dies, and it's replaced by what we like to regard as the very ordinary circumstance of just getting together to enjoy one another's company. Not to make too big a deal out of it, but it's a victory, in a way. An ordinary occurance normally, but a human victory when everything is put into focus. A personal reminder that when everything is said and done, we're all still human here.
To "guy": If your post is for real, I would say you have NOTHING to worry about. 99.9% of the AMP girls I've run across are some of the sweetest human beings I've met. They wouldn't harm a fly. I think I can safely say that if she wanted your phone number, it's only because she likes you. You would be doing yourself (and her) a huge disservice by inventing anything more complex than that.
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