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veteran (230 posts) 09-Feb-01, 07:22 PM (PDT) "sexual energy exchange" When a man and a woman have sex, there is an exchange of energy, even if it's just a HJ. I remember vividly a HJ and prostate massage I got from a Tantra woman last month. I have rarely felt so relaxed and at peace as I felt after that session. I'm fumbling to "explain" what happened and can't, really, but I know she was really THERE for me during the session (steady eye contact, encouragement, passionate music on her stereo) and of course she had me do the Tantric breathing to move the sexual energy through my whole body as she touched me. Even though that was a good experience, I won't see her again because I want to have intercourse with a woman who turns me on. Unfortunately most experiences I've had with providers have not been satisfying like that. Sure, they can be exciting and even affectionate GFE's, and I often have a strong appetite afterward from my body being energized by the sexual release. But I don't feel peaceful, I feel more like a depressed person who has artificially turned manic, and the next day the depression returns. I believe part of the dissatisfaction comes from the woman not really enjoying the experience, from her just coldly doing her job, even if she feigns passion. Today I was with a provider who is turned on to me and she reached a petite orgasm with me; I felt a little better after being with her. This energy operates on subtle levels. Those who know about the 7 chakras in our bodies might explain it that way. Contact is only being made at the level of the lower chakras, and the heart is still starved. If you know anything about that or just wish to share your experiences with the energy, I'd be very interested.   Alert Edit | Reply | Reply With Quote | Top

RE: sexual energy exchange, NewlyFaithful*, 04:36 PM, 15-Feb-01, (1) RE: compatible with spiritual partnership, veteran, 10:23 AM, 25-Mar-01, (3) RE: sexual energy exchange, dhenderson, 05:07 PM, 04-Mar-01, (2) RE: Faye Desiree , veteran, 10:26 AM, 25-Mar-01, (4)

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NewlyFaithful* (1 posts) 15-Feb-01, 04:36 PM (PDT) 1. "RE: sexual energy exchange" Sex occurs at many levels, from the purely physical (which I call assisted masturbation) to highly spiritual. The latter kind of sex is way more fulfilling and I beleive this is behind the quest of the elusive "GFE". But you must realize, that to get the spiritual experience you must have a connection with your partner which far exceeds the mere physical attraction. It is difficult (if not impossible) to get that from someone paid for the task. Of course even with physical sex, it is better when the "chemistry" is right than when it is not but it is not the same as the spiritual kind of sex. The main difference is that with sex with prostitutes, we just take, not give (except for money). Even if we try to give, because of the professional relationship, they are not open to receive. And without a deep emotional bond, there is no real exchange of spiritual energy. I am not against the "hobby" in a moral sense if it does not involve lying to your partner, endangering her health etc. But I no longer believe that this "hobby" is compatible with a spiritual partnership with a woman.   Remove | Alert Edit | Reply | Reply With Quote | Top

veteran (230 posts) 25-Mar-01, 10:23 AM (PDT) 3. "RE: compatible with spiritual partnership" You're absolutely right, NewlyFaithful*, so what I'm working on is elevating the hobby to more than assisted masturbation by developing a real relationship with my ATF.   Remove | Alert Edit | Reply | Reply With Quote | Top

dhenderson (7 posts) 04-Mar-01, 05:07 PM (PDT) 2. "RE: sexual energy exchange" Veteran, I envy you, and it makes me a bit sad to read that you had this wonderful, satisfying connection, but you're not going back to her because you want intercours (the only "real" sex?). As the previously reply indicates, there is more than a little flavor of self-deprivation in what you're saying. Does it really make sense to trade genuine satisfaction for an experience that often leaves you feeling no better than before you did the deed? You didn't ask for any advice, but it occurs to me that there's a way you can get everything you want. Check out Faye Desiree in Santa Cruz (http://www.faydesiree.com). She will give you an expert tantric experience *and* the intercourse you say you prefer (plus pretty much anything else your nasty little heart desires!). She's very much worth whatever it takes to get with her. Best wishes from a happy hobbyist.   Remove | Alert Edit | Reply | Reply With Quote | Top

veteran (230 posts) 25-Mar-01, 10:26 AM (PDT) 4. "RE: Faye Desiree " I've corresponded with Faye and she, in fact, connected me with that great tantra practitioner I wrote about. Great woman! I'll meet her someday but right now I'm working on elevating my relationship with my ATF.   Remove | Alert Edit | Reply | Reply With Quote | Top

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