It pisses you off when you make an effort to set up an appointment with a provider, in this case a BDSM provider, and go to the effort and, yes even the emotional involvement, of getting there....and she does not show. And you think it must be your fault...bad confirmation, wrong number, etc. Not here. She just didnt make it. I am talking about DominaLady--www.domina.ms/DominaLady.com , also advertised on eros guide, in the bdsm section. $250 per hour, in the area of valencia and 16th. s.f. It was set and she demaned confirmation that day by phone. Done. But nothing but voice mail. five plus calls. No response. So went to the check point by BART--a pain in the ass but I did not want to be wrong and then be a half hour more away. Call again. Voice mail. The went back to a meeting, one that I had used dumb unbelievable excuses to get out of, and phoned and e-mailed. Next day response: "my secretary took the calls." no apology, no nothing. just arrogance. if you see her--and she does take time with you on the phone--be sure it is confirmed and confirmed good. ...ever have that happen? any solution?