I've almost never seen any explicit discussion here about a technique at sex. I guess most are shy about talking about it. Ironically, I'm not. Mostly the posts here are about does she do BBBJ or whatever...Generally I've found the best technique in MPs - not necessarily of the Asian variety. Perhaps this is because I'm a huge fan of extended foreplay and arousal - since if it was a quick pop I wanted - I know how to do that myself. Still there are few MP girls that have great technique - but I've found it there more often than with independents or agency girls.
I'm a fan of the soft touch "feather" massage. This is where the girl uses the softest possible touch of her finger tips and hands to stroke you with special attention to the insides of the thighs, balls, butt and anus. Done well with both hands - this can be so extremely arousing that it has brought me to orgasm simply from the pressure of lying face down on my erection.
A girl that really knows how to do this knows all the tricks - using both hands to stoke the anus and balls at the same time. Lightly tickly your balls while stoking the soles of your feet, running each of her hands down the insides of each of your thighs at the same time, and on and on.... The key is to barely touch you - basically letting her fingers and hands brush your hairs.
When it comes time for the handjob - there's technique there too. Most every girl lubes you up and starts jerking like crazy - or if you can slow her down, it's only for a moment. They don't get that better orgasms need to be worked up to slowly so that you can't wait for it to happen.
The best handjobs require slow steady light stroking - constant rythm - no jerking. The goal is a slow approach to orgasm - no rushing. The girl needs to be sure her hand completely slides over the glans without squeezing or overstimulating the wrong parts. All the while she needs to continue to softly stroke the inside of your thighs and balls. Done right this gives me the most amazing orgasm. If a girl is a real expert she will hold the erection in one hand while stroking the tip with small fast circular strokes. This once almost made me pass out when I came.
I had an AMP experience recently that completely stated the perfect experience. A wonderful feather massage - so arousing - I had to turn over before she asked. At first her handjob was so light, I was wondering - "I hope I can come" but after 10 minutes of her patient, slow, never changing strokes, I was crying out as I gripped the table above my head to keep from falling off.
Years ago in Boston there was a MP with many beautiful white girls. My first experience of an expert "feather" massage was there. The girl got me so hot, while lying face down - not long after see began to stroke my anus and balls - I came. I was shocked, embarassed and surprised. On later visits I asked her what she was doing with her hands - but it was a trade secret. Here in CA I've often found that the more plain girls have the best technique - they need to in order to get repeat business.
Generally, I've found independent escorts to not be very knowledgeable about technique. It's more about - put it in and get you off - quickly. Some are more romantic about it than others - but they tend to not know the finer points of giving pleasure to a guy. It's sad - because I like the more romantic experience with an escort - sharing a glass of wine, and making love in a real bed.
Once in a while I've had escort experiences where she knew what she was doing - how to get me really aroused, really made love to me and knew how to use her pussy and entire body to give pleasure. The acid test for me is: can she get me turned on enough for a second round? Sadly - I've found it's rare - and that in assembly line AMP environment - the girls more often know far more about how to give pleasure.
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